• Skip to main content
  • Skip to secondary menu
  • Skip to primary sidebar
  • Skip to footer
  • Home
  • About Us & Contacts
    • About Us – RamonaDepares.com
    • Contact Us
  • Privacy & Cookie Policies
    • Privacy Policy
    • Cookie Policy
  • Affiliate & Advertising Disclosure
    • Affiliate Disclosure/Advertising Disclosure
    • Our Reviewing Process
    • Disclaimer Page
  • FAQs
  • Terms and Conditions

  • Home
  • THEATRE REVIEWS
  • DEEP DIVES
  • BOOKS
  • LIFESTYLE
    • MUSIC
    • FASHION
    • FOOD
    • NEWS
  • Published Works
    • BELTIN: STEJJER MINN NIES MINSIJA
You are here: Home / THEATRE / Her Say Not Hearsay Review

Her Say Not Hearsay Review

March 9, 2024 by Ramona Depares

Women’s Day may be a gimmick, but it does serve as springboard to some genuinely useful initiatives. The production of Her Say, Not Hearsay, which opened at Spazju Kreattiv yesterday, is one such example. Directed by Charlotte Grech, who also performs, the play presents three original monologues related to women’s issues – the lack of female rights during wartime, menopause and domestic violence.

The production opens with Kim Dalli’s script, focusing on the situation in 1945, where scores of young working women were being made redundant simply so that men could claim their jobs. Dalli’s narrative imagines a young woman (Naomi Said), who decides to rebel against the status quo, taking inspiration from the suffragette movement to clap back at church and government.

Said does a good job portraying a mix of righteous indignation and naïveté, her rousing monologue heartbreakingly pointing towards both hope and desperation. The script cleverly introduces real-life Maltese feminist figures like Mabel Strickland, elevating this from a mere ‘story’ into a horrifying reminder that in this not-too-distant past women didn’t even have an undisputed right to work, let alone vote.

Wartime letters reproduced from The Times were even more horrifying for the simple reason that I remember similar anti-feminist sentiments being sent to the letters section of the same newspaper within the past decade. Clearly, not enough has changed.

The second story brought forth Lara Calleja‘s vision of a woman dealing with the onset of menopause, humorously and poignantly portrayed by Charlotte Grech. Grech shines in bringing Calleja’s script to life, brilliantly presenting a woman who just can’t deal with all the crap that’s suddenly hitting her body from all directions. She’s self-deprecating, angry, confused and ever so human, seeing the funny side of even the most annoying circumstances, the audience laughing along in empathy.

I didn’t have time to stay on for the post-theatre discussion, but a few quick words exchanged with male members of the audience surprised me by the level of engagement with a topic that is often viewed as strictly for women. Here’s to more playwrights putting the spotlight on menopause as something that affects us all.

I particularly appreciated Calleja’s reference to women being wrongly prescribed anti-depression pills to alleviate menopause symptoms. The topic was dominating UK news recently and, with Calleja’s script being based on a series of real-life interviews she conducted, it is very worrying that a similar trend seems to be emerging in Malta.

The final story was the sobering Sittax, written by Simone Spiteri and performed by Angele Galea, who brings an incredible amount of pathos to the role. Sittax (16) are the number of minutes the protagonist gets to spend everyday free of her husband while he visits his mother. The explanation that unfolds is a sickening tale of domestic violence that starts with the husband forbidding Galea’s character from wearing any makeup and escalates into rape and a broken nose.

The subtle evolution from love-bombing to abuser is expertly portrayed by the script. Galea gives a chilling performance, imbuing her character wit and intelligence that really push the point home: this can happen to anyone. Domestic abuse is not limited to ‘a certain type’ of woman.

Both Spiteri and Galea sensitively underline the complicated psychological issues which see many women staying in an abusive situation sometimes for years.

The production ends with a coda that brings together all three protagonists. I felt this was unnecessary, the theme of universality and commonality having already been successfully made within each narrative. The spot-lighting could also do with refining, preferably not pointing directly into the eyes of a section of the audience.

It’s very easy for social commentary in theatre to backfire. As serious as some causes are, audiences also want to be immersed, engaged and entertained. We’ve had instances where important issues tackled by the wrong hands ended up being overly preachy and alienating audiences.

This is certainly not the case with Her Say Not Hearsay. The play achieves the feat of driving home some strong points while also being extremely engaging. We had laugh out moments even during Sittax, which just goes to show that the right playwright and cast appreciate the value of giving to the audience. This is not to say that every production needs to include funny elements. But there’s a lot to be said for valuing humanity over morality pieces.

Her Say Not Hearsay runs only this weekend at Spazju Kreattiv, so get your tickets here. You don’t need to be a militant feminist to appreciate this piece, just being human is enough.

Affiliate/Advertising Disclaimer: How I Carry Out Reviews

I received no payment for this review and I used press review tickets The opinions expressed here are purely my own and Spazju Kreattiv had no input/control over what I wrote. No affiliate links are included in this review.To learn more about my policies and my reviewing process, visit my Affiliate/Advertising disclosure page.

Ramona Depares

Former Head of News at Times of Malta, turned freelance journalist and creative writer. Three books published, 2 journalism awards, 1 Arts Council Malta award, work published locally & internationally.

Filed Under: THEATRE Tagged With: Malta arts, Malta culture, Malta Theatre, Spazju Kreattiv

Primary Sidebar

  • Facebook
  • Instagram
  • RSS
  • Twitter
  • YouTube

Theatre Highlights

boċċi-il-musical

1.5 hours dedicated to a niche game, with wildly entertaining results.

FameHungry

Pure entertainment that also inspires critical thought.

into-the-woods-teatru-manoel

A superb cast and crew successfully rose to the lofty heights expected of a Sondheim work.

Food Highlights

Zest is still leading the charge in Asian fusion on the local front.

the-bastion-pool-and-restaurant

A stunning oasis on the outskirts of the capital.

cantine-pellegrino-wines

Cantine Pellegrino boasts a long-wine heritage that started in Marsala back in 1880.

Fashion Highlights

a-curious-beauty-palazzo-falson

Delightful curatorial choices make this exhibition special.

handle-with-care-charles-and-ron

From statement pieces to survivalist chic, Handle With Care captivates our attention.

pink-fashion-party

An eclectic list of guests and designers celebrated fashion

Books Highlights

book-teatru-tal-miskin

A fascinating look at how the production came about.

filli-ma-tcun-xejn-filli-titħol-fl-esistenza

A morose, yet hauntingly beautiful, journey.

A turning point for Maltese theatre.

DEEP DIVES

disability-in-theatre-malta

How can we make the shift towards an inclusive theatre scene? I spoke with actors, practitioners, and stakeholders in Malta and abroad to try and figure out some answers.

Arts Highlights

kane-cali-i-dont-have-a-theory

A journey that sees the artist letting go of structure

it-teatru-tal-miskin

Excels on all fronts, a real game-changer

les-nuits-barbares-miaf

A fusion of Mediterranean cultures on stage

News Highlights

blanket-ban

Blanket Ban interview.

Is this the start of a revolution in Children’ Theatre?

Even the bread was a conversation starter.

Footer

  • Home
  • About Us & Contacts
    • About Us – RamonaDepares.com
    • Contact Us
  • Privacy & Cookie Policies
    • Privacy Policy
    • Cookie Policy
  • Affiliate & Advertising Disclosure
    • Affiliate Disclosure/Advertising Disclosure
    • Our Reviewing Process
    • Disclaimer Page
  • FAQs
  • Terms and Conditions

Copyright Ramona Depares © 2025

Manage Cookie Consent
We use cookies to optimize our website and our service.
Functional Always active
The technical storage or access is strictly necessary for the legitimate purpose of enabling the use of a specific service explicitly requested by the subscriber or user, or for the sole purpose of carrying out the transmission of a communication over an electronic communications network.
Preferences
The technical storage or access is necessary for the legitimate purpose of storing preferences that are not requested by the subscriber or user.
Statistics
The technical storage or access that is used exclusively for statistical purposes. The technical storage or access that is used exclusively for anonymous statistical purposes. Without a subpoena, voluntary compliance on the part of your Internet Service Provider, or additional records from a third party, information stored or retrieved for this purpose alone cannot usually be used to identify you.
Marketing
The technical storage or access is required to create user profiles to send advertising, or to track the user on a website or across several websites for similar marketing purposes.
Manage options Manage services Manage {vendor_count} vendors Read more about these purposes
View preferences
{title} {title} {title}
  • Home
  • About Us & Contacts
    • About Us – RamonaDepares.com
    • Contact Us
  • Privacy & Cookie Policies
    • Privacy Policy
    • Cookie Policy
  • Affiliate & Advertising Disclosure
    • Affiliate Disclosure/Advertising Disclosure
    • Our Reviewing Process
    • Disclaimer Page
  • FAQs
  • Terms and Conditions
  • Home
  • THEATRE REVIEWS
  • DEEP DIVES
  • BOOKS
  • LIFESTYLE
    • MUSIC
    • FASHION
    • FOOD
    • NEWS
  • Published Works
    • BELTIN: STEJJER MINN NIES MINSIJA